SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Survivors of Domestic Violence

Survivors of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is physical, psychological, sexual or financial violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour. Crime statistics and research both show that domestic violence is gender specific, usually the perpetrator of a pattern of repeated assaults is a man. Any woman can experience domestic violence regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, sexuality, disability or lifestyle. Battering is a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation, often including the threat or use of violence. Battering happens when one person believes they are entitled to control another. Assault, battering and domestic violence are crimes. Acts of domestic violence generally fall into one or more of the following categories:

Physical Battering: The abuser's physical attacks or aggressive behaviour can range from bruising to murder. This usually begins with what is excused as trivial, but then escalates into more frequent and serious attacks. Sexual Abuse: Physical attack by the abuser is often accompanied by, or culminates in, sexual violence wherein the woman is forced to have sexual intercourse with her abuser or take part in unwanted sexual activity. Psychological Battering: The abuser's psychological or mental violence can include constant verbal abuse, harassment, excessive possessiveness, and isolating the woman from friends and family, deprivation of physical and economic resources, and destruction of personal property. Domestic violence escalates. It often begins with behaviours like name-calling, threats, violence in the victim's presence (such as punching a fist through a wall), and/or damage to objects or pets. It may escalate to restraining, pushing, slapping, and pinching. The battering may include punching, kicking, biting, sexual assault, tripping, and throwing. At its most extreme, it may become life threatening with serious behaviours such as choking, breaking bones, or even the use of weapons. (Crites 2006 p.15-19)

Various theories have been explored to try and give some insight as to why some people especially men use violence against their partners. These theories include among others: family dysfunction, inadequate communication skills, stress, chemical dependency, economic hardship, provocation by women and lack of spirituality. However, while these issues may be associated with the battering of women, they are not the causes. If these associated factors are removed it will not end men's violence against women. (http://society.guardian.co.uk)

Most domestic violence victims are women, however, this does not mean that men are not physically harmed by a female abuser who is well known to them. Research conducted by Strauss et al (1980) showed that women are as equally likely as men to hit. However, they state that it is when you look at who gets 'hurt' that the story changes. Analysis of police reports in Santa Barbara, California, indicated that in 90% of cases (in instances where injuries were noted) the injuries were women only. In the remaining 10%, both parties had injuries. In all cases where both parties had injuries, the woman's injuries were more severe ...