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A Crossroads of having a child

Introduction

Children always play a significant role in the life of parents. The presence of children completely changes the face of life. To start my essay, I must first focus on the parent-children relationship. According to me, the parent-child relationship is the social and emotional relationship between a parent and the child of their own. A distinction is sometimes on the sex of the parent, mother-child relationship and father-child relationship and, in addition to the sex of the child's father-son relationship, mother-daughter relationship, father-daughter relationship, mother-son relationship. If the son or daughter grows up, usually is one of the last names used. However, in family therapy and sociology of the two parent-child relationships, together with the parental couple's relationship as the father-mother-child relationship, and thus as a triad (three-way relationship) considered.

Discussion

Parent-child relationship

It is the parent-child relationship from the start of an unequal relationship: the baby is in his survival of the relationship with mother, father or attending caregiver existentially dependent, in the course of childhood and adolescence a growing individuation takes place. In Western societies are generally the primary parent for the upbringing of the child's responsibility, and the child will remain until the coming of age in parental care. Thus, parent-child relationships in combination with other factors such as birth order, role models and peer groups shaped the development of the child.

Since the baby is completely dependent on being fed by the parents and parents need to focus much of their attention on meeting the supply requirements, creates a very specific form of relationship. It is an extremely asymmetric relationship because the other one for the whole must be there, but this has not vice versa (Kretchmar-Hendricks, pp. 969-973).

The relationship not limited to physical care. The child has turned from birth include special attention to moving objects (especially the human face), and the infant in an adult congenital patterns of behavior, attention, attention, and care and special sequences of the contact behavior.

"The attention of the infant's innate for the living human face, his principal focus curious on something that can be gradually than the other, outside, the non-ego experienced as intentionality. This maturing, evolving feature of intentionality is the basis for the development is the communication system for the exchange of signals between a gradual awakening subject and an interest in nature, which has initially had no immediate contour, but are largely atmospheric, and highlights the unfathomable love that I have for my children.

Development Phase

The child is in this phase of development especially on the reliable supply of my attendance, to offer food, skin and eye contact, irritation sufficient supply and protection from overstimulation. Therefore, plays the so-called "fit" between me and my child relationship in this phase a pivotal role.

In the early stages of life to develop key areas of personality, especially a general emotional awareness of the world and the people, the presumed intentionality, and it develops a basic knowledge that a communicative bridge possible for other people. These early experiences of sight-succession-setting (synchronization) can be seen as reassuring. "If because ...