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Parent Should Trust Their Child's Dating Choice

Introduction

This paper, will be discussing a question which exist in the minds of many youngsters. The question is that should Parent trust their child's dating choice. It is observed that many youngsters today believe on dating and they like to marry a girl/boy of their own choice. Parents might trust on her child's dating choice it's all about how the relationship exists between a child and parent. How much is written, how much is said about the relationship between parents and children. And things are there (Amato, 1031). Too many parents are unhappy with their children, and criticize their actions and want to live a life for them. In turn, the children quietly hated their parents for meddling in their lives, for the control and manipulation, for the scandals and accusations. This situation has been going on for thousands of years and probably appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind. Of course, there are few happy families, where parents and children prevails respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to address is destructive of families.

Thesis Statement

The thesis statement for this paper is that, Yes, the parents should trust their children dating choice and it is their responsibility to provide guidelines to their children in context to the situation they are facing.

Discussion and Analysis

Parents must trust their child's dating choice as there are some reasons for this statement. However, parents should never make their child feel bad about whom they are dating or a decision about marriage to someone they are dating (Umberson, 664). It is not the job of a parent to decide for their child, but rather to share their thoughts and/or be there for their child when they ask them for their opinion. If done gently and kindly, and with a sense of respect for the child's right to make their own decision, they can have a real influence for the good on that child. If they know their child will do whatever they say, they also have the power to manipulate the situation, which would be wrong. And of course, if they are angry and harsh about whom the child is dating, they can push that child into the arms of the very person they believe is no good for them.

Some parents observe that the formal arrangement is not properly seen and teen's social life is getting informal and spontaneous. In some situations the children social life helps them to understand and make a sense to know them where they are standing in real life. As children grows up and understand things they are more interested in talking and spend time with people of opposite sex (Herman, Dornbusch et al, 34). This is a natural and healthy form of interaction when done within certain boundaries. Some parents may try to push their child into lots of social activity, while others may try to discourage social interaction ...