Abstract

Marriage is one of the closest relations between a man and a woman. This is a relation in which couples share their lives with each other. In usual circumstances, couples do not hide anything with each other and share their every secret with one another. However, this is a relation who is very complex as well and needs cooperation from both sides (males and females) to keep the relation going in a positive manner. Nevertheless, because of opposite behaviors couples found themselves trapped in internal conflicts which even lead towards their permanent separation. For such couples counseling is a solution that serves as a last resort for couples to save their marriage. The following paper discusses about various such techniques that counselors use to guide couples in saving their marriage.

Contents

Abstract1

Introduction3

Discussion5

Approach of Minuchin and Nicolas7

Psychoanalytic Approaches Psychodynamic or Couple in Therapy9

Against The Secret to Wedding9

Couples Therapy Psychoanalytic11

A Relationship of Different Approaches13

Issues in Marriages15

Importance of Communication in Marriages18

Conclusion19

Introduction

The commitment of the therapy is to promote the emotional health of members of the couple and not the maintenance or breakdown of the marriage. The rigidity and stereotypy often characterize the disease, while the flexibility and the possibility of changing point to health. In some cases, the change from one member of the couple in therapy, or marital interaction leads to the breakdown of the marriage. In others, it is the inability to change and rigidity that lead to such disruption.

Couple therapy can be considered as a particular case of family therapy. The indications of couple therapy are mostly related to certain types of marital functioning where encodings took up most complexes among spouses who either work in a symbiotic or fictional, or, conversely, argue intensely everything that could be a threat or symbiotic functioning (Vogels, 2006, p. 21-31). It's what leads some people to quarrel and become aggressive from the moment they experience tenderness or desire for happiness regressive. For these people apparently so "individualized", it is very marked reaction formations. Julie and Postmedia addressed to the question of specificity of therapeutic approach - individual, family or couple highlights that one cannot speak of such specificity, without talking about specific demand (Julie and Postmedia, 2011, p. 13-19). For him, the demand is made up of elements which include suffering, symptom and complaint. At the clinic couples finds itself suffering referred specifically to the couple, marital symptoms and complaints centered on the problems of the couple. Researchers on this topic show how the choice between individual therapy and couples therapy is not always evident (Paramor, 2011, p. 36-43). There are those that require couples therapy to escape from questioning personal and individual, in this case, the therapist should forward them to individual therapies. But conversely, many therapists still unaware of the clinical path that couple therapy can open for treating people poorly individualized. Given the individual disorders that are related to a symbiotic climate between spouses, therapists often indicate individual therapies as a solution to this problem. This means misunderstand the meaning of unconscious ...