The Effects of the Loss of Your Mother

The Effects of the Loss of Your Mother

Importance of Mother

The mission of the mother is tied directly to life. She raises and educates the child to society and God. Therefore, the biggest contradiction is a mother to abort her child. The mother is the great defender of life, from conception until natural death of the child. The creature more unnatural, more perverse, it is the mother who rejects his own son. The mother is the first teacher of man, she casts to live the virtues, love for others, civility, and develop all their talents for the good of themselves and others. To educate is to cooperate with God, and is in the education of children who reveal the virtues of the mother (Wright et.al, 2013). Without the care and attention of the mother the child will certainly grow disoriented and lacking in affection for life. No experience maternal love the future man will be sad. It's in the lap of the mother that the child learns what is faith, pray and learns to love God and people. Most people who call themselves atheists, or averse to religion, received no faith in the lap of their mothers, because early childhood is that man has his first encounter with God and fundamental.

Loss of Mother

It is forever the loss, the pain; the one missing that day by day becomes more longing. Scholars of human behavior do not dare to define with precision the age limit for a child to retain in memory images of who generated it. These processes depend on personal factors, family circumstances, and cultural heritage. The loss of the mother, regardless of its causes, is one of the most radical experiments in a person's life. “We die a little too”, explains the American therapist, a researcher psychophysical relations between life and death. “We carry within us the mother, unable to break up with her.” Feelings of fear, guilt and even release mingle in this loss. We live in a contradiction radical death breaks a bond that, strictly speaking, is unbreakable. There is no theory that explains (and sort on fixed models) the effects of maternal absence.

There are families who prefer not to face the truth and create fanciful versions for children. It is said that Mom traveled and never return, pro example (Walach et.al, 2013). This option can further complicate the child's feelings, because the logical child, who has traveled back. How not to consume the return, there is the idea that the mother left for any failure of the child. The feeling of abandonment shall be governed by guilt. At any age and whatever the situation, it is necessary that the person stare her pain ahead, feel it, understand it and accept it.

Lack of Guidance

Although in recent decades have spoken more openly about sex and sexuality, even today, these are taboo subjects for many and it can be observed that, in general, rather than parents and teachers worry to instruct ...