DIVORCE POISON BY RICHARD A. WARSHAK

Divorce Poison by Richard A. Warshak

Divorce Poison by Richard A. Warshak

Every divorce attorney and every therapist dealing with any family or family member who is dealing with recent divorce issues, should recommend this book Divorce Poisonwritten by Richard A. Warshak, Ph.D.   It speaks directly to the issue of parental alienation without getting involved with the mental health wars as to whether or not the eminent Dr. Richard A. Gardner is correct or not correct calling parental alienation a syndrome or some other type of clinical configuration.

This book brilliantly brings home the fact that when divorce happens the children get hurt.  In his introduction, Warshak defines the focus of the book as being, "on those children whose rejection of one parent results primarily from the other parent's influence…This book explains why the common approaches are impotent, why doing nothing will accomplish nothing, and why relying primarily on reasoning is an unreasonable approach to the problem."

In one of the most wonderful chapters, chapter 7, entitled Poison Control, Dr. Warshak states most emphatically, "Love is not enough.  It is not enough to protect children from divorce poison.  And it is not enough to reverse its pernicious effects."

This reviewer is a private practice Child Custody Evaluator in Los Angeles County and in several counties surrounding that area.  As an expert witness for the Superior Court's Family Law Court, the effects of divorce poison are all too frequently clear.  By the time a case reaches the point of needing a child custody evaluation, it is this reviewer's experience that 90%+ of the time there are issues of parental alienation that has adversely affected the child or children.

This book, Divorce Poison, clearly and in easy-to-understand language talks to the parents about how their behavior affects the best interests of their child.  How it affects the overall psychological and physical well being of the child.  From what we now know through the combined efforts of the neurosciences, psychology, psychiatry, family counseling, child development professionals, family law courts, and child custody experts, the harm inflicted upon a child or teenager during this most critical time of divorce can and does have effects that last over the entire lifespan of the child or youth involved.

The case histories that Warshak uses more than adequately bring home to the reader the bridge between psychological theory and research, and life-experience fact.  The examples are ones that this ...